Red Flags of a Narcissist—Unisex T-Shirt—Bella + Canvas 3001

A great conversation starter! Let's talk about one of the most powerful and yet incredibly sad issues of our time: Narcissism. Keeping our "head in the sand" does not diminish the reality of "power over" and abuse. Secrecy only exacerbates the problem and diminishes the desperate need we all have to be understood, feel safe, and be cherished.

From Patti DiMiceli, the designer: "On the front is a 1910 silhouette that immediately caught my eye to use as an illustration of breaking free from the bonds of the narcissist. 'This looks like how I feel!' I added the beautiful blue energy that occurred when I cut the ties. And now I am 'Free to BE!' All I want is to simply 'Be' without drama, trauma, or needless distress.

The back contains a 'Cliff's Notes' version of the 'Narcissist's Playbook.' It's a gentle, unique way for me to educate one other person...to hopefully save them from a bit of the pain and torment I have endured.

This is something I wish I'd seen in my teens. It's a graphically pleasing, easy-to-understand, simple guide to the Phases, Behaviors, Characteristics, etc. of a narcissist. Each of us is unique, yes. And, some of us follow patterns of behavior that, like a red flag, can be spotted from a distance and scream 'Danger!'

Whether you stand in line behind someone wearing our T-Shirts, use our notebooks as a journal, carry one of our 'Red Flags' tote bags, or drink from our mugs, etc., my hope is that you will learn what took me 63 years to learn the very hard way."

"Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involve me and I learn." —Benjamin Franklin

"Turn your wounds into wisdom." —Oprah Winfrey

The Unisex Staple T-Shirt feels soft and light with just the right amount of stretch. It's comfortable and flattering for all. We can't compliment this shirt enough–it's one of our crowd favorites, and it's sure to be your next favorite too! 

• Solid colors are 100% Airlume combed and ring-spun cotton
• Ash color is 99% combed and ring-spun cotton, 1% polyester
• Heather colors are 52% combed and ring-spun cotton, 48% polyester
• Athletic and Black Heather are 90% combed and ring-spun cotton, 10% polyester
• Heather Prism colors are 99% combed and ring-spun cotton, 1% polyester
• Fabric weight: 4.2 oz/yd² (142 g/m²)
• Pre-shrunk fabric
• 30 singles
• Side-seamed construction
• Tear-away label
• Shoulder-to-shoulder taping

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